Meme of the year – Abit Late

While I wasn’t official tagged for this meme, I did find it interesting when reading these entries at The Eagle & Child and Living in the Gray so I thought that I should really write my own.

1. What did you do in 2008 that you’d never done before?

I went out on a limb and printed my own T-Shirt Designs to sell as a fundraiser for relief in Africa. Unfortunately, I really only broke even on that and still quite a few shirts. Anyone want one for $20? They are the first three designs over at www.poeticindustries.com

2. Did you keep your new year’s resolutions, and will you make more for next year?

I never made any. They are lame.

3. Did anyone close to you give birth?

My sister did.

4. Did anyone close to you die?

My last Grandparent, my Grandma Heppner.

5. What countries did you visit?

United States, boring huh.

6. What would you like to have in 2009 that you lacked in 2008?

Hmmm, maybe more design work, although I did alot of that. But more importantly, what I really want in 2009 is another kid.

7. What dates from 2008 will remain etched upon your memory, and why?

Probably finding out my Grandma died.

8. What was your biggest achievement of the year?

The website I built over at www.cornerstone-church.ca

9. What was your biggest failure?

The fact that I lost way to many connections with students I work with.

10. Did you suffer illness or injury?

Nope. In fact, I can’t really remember the last time I was actually sick.

11. What was the best thing you bought?

Of course this has to be my iPhone 3G.

12. Whose behavior merited celebration?

My daughter. I love her to death and she is my little Princess.

13. Whose behavior made you appalled and depressed?

I won’t mention any names here.

14. Where did most of your money go?

To pay for my house and renovations.

15. What did you get really, really, really excited about?

See #11

16. What song will always remind you of 2008?

Unfortunately, it will probably be the really annoying Katy Perry song, “I kissed a Girl” simply because it was so over played as well as the Wired 98 BillBoard conflict. If you don’t live in Saskatoon and drive down Warman Road you won’t understand, but I trust you understand my dislike of the song.

17. Compared to this time last year, are you:a) happier or sadder? b) thinner or fatter? c) richer or poorer?

Probably no change on happier or sadder; thinner abit due to playing 4 nights a week of Ultimate this past summer; and of course poorer.

18. What do you wish you’d done more of?

Loved other people.

19. What do you wish you’d done less of?

Sulk and complain

20. How will you be spending Christmas?

Since I am abit late on this meme, I spent Christmas with family in Saskatoon and at my folks farm in Waldheim. It was a blast seeing Libby and her cousin Taylor play together. As well it was awesome having Dawn’s folks come to Saskatoon for Christmas, thereby eliminating our driving this past December.

21. Did you fall in love in 2008?

I am always in love with my beautiful wife, Dawn and my daughter, Libby.

22. How many one-night stands?

hello, I’m married. come on.

23. What was your favorite TV program?

Chuck

24. Do you hate anyone now that you didn’t hate this time last year?

Nope. I’m pretty laid back, so I don’t really hate anyone.

25. What was the best book you read?

Probably Wide Awake, by Erwin McManus, but I can’t really remember as I am not a big reader of books.

26. What was your greatest musical discovery?

That indeed I am not musical.

27. What did you want and get?

I wanted an iPhone and I got it. See above

28. What did you want and not get?

A 2nd Child

29. What was your favorite film of this year?

In, Bruges and The Dark Knight.

30. What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you?

I can’t really remember and it was only a couple months ago. I am 27 now.

31. What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying?

Probably if I wouldn’t have had to cancell my Dimension Four program and join up with the D4 Group because our numbers were so low.

32. How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2008?

I wouldn’t. I would ask someone else to describe it cause I don’t know what I am talking about.

33. What kept you sane?

My wife and daughter.

34. Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most?

None, they all seem pretty boring to me.

35. What political issue stirred you the most?

Anything related to economy or low income families such as myself.

36. Who did you miss?

My Grandmother Sarah who is in heaven.

37. Who was the best new person you met?

Hmmm, that’s a hard one, I don’t think I could boil that down to one person. It would probably be all those members of Irish Smzmigielskis, or anyone new that I met who is know coming to my small group on Monday Nights. You know who you all are. If you are reading this. Please let me know.

38. Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2008.

Perserverance, perserverance, perserverance.

39. Quote a song lyric that sums up your year.

Can’t think of one right now.

On Break

Sorry for the lack of posting over the past while. We have been very busy this holidays with family and such. We started the holidays with Dawn’s family coming in for a week just before Christmas. Then my family flew in (after many weather delays by all) on Christmas day. While one sister flew home on New Year’s Eve, the last of the family is here for one last day before heading home. Oh, and I forgot to mention that due to some home renovations I have been busy at home when not with family. So I guess I have a good reason for the lack of posting. I promise to get back to regular scheduled programming soon.

Family Photos

So we finally decided it was time to hire someone to take pics for us. Tamarah Leanne did our pics last Sunday afternoon. It was alot of fun and we can’t wait to see all of the them. Here is just one pic, but the rest can be seen here, or if you are on facebook they are there, but not in a very high quality.

Banff Trip Part Two

While I was hoping to have Part Two while we where still in Banff, however, internet access disappeared midway through our stay, it seems wireless signals don’t do well in cloudy weather or something weird like that. Anyways, we had a great time in the Canmore area hanging out and spending time as a family. On Monday, we drove into Calgary to goto the Zoo. This turned out to be a highlight of the trip. Libby LOVED the zoo. We had to stay for over 1/2hr alone just watching the gorillas and monkeys. You’ve got to check out the other pics on our web gallery from the Zoo. Particularly the ones next to what I call, “The Buddhaphant.” Our last full day in Canmore the weather turned to rain. However, we made the best of it and spent some time in Canmore and even rented a movie. I am so glad that I was able to get away and spend time with Dawn and Libby. April was so busy, and I needed the time to get away and reconnect with my family. The hardest part was going back to work these past two days as we drove home on Wednesday and I was right back to work. Check out more pics from our trip here

Thanksgiving

We had a busy weekend, with a house full. Our friend Kailey came to visit for the weekend from Hay River, NT and my in-laws come from Barrhead, AB. We have had a great thanksgiving with family. While my mom is in BC visiting my sisters and more importantly our neice, Taylor, my dad was able to take time off from harvesting and come enjoy a great thanksgiving meal.. (thanks honey) Libby has recently decided that she wants to help mommy in the kitchen. She loves to climb up onto a chair and “help” mom. She got her first taste of a turkey dinner, and I wish I could report that she loved it, but alas, my daughter isn’t into that type of food yet. Someday soon she will be loving mash potatoes and gravy just like her father. After all, she is mennonite!

On another note…please continue to pray for our Dimension Four, we started this week with only two volunteers, however, more notably we had zero kids show up. The start of D4 this year has been very frustrating and stressful on myself. Please pray for God’s wisdom as I lead this group.

zen and the art of poker booking

So this post is my frustration with people….in the beginning of June when my garage was ready to be used as a drop-in center(complete with pool table, fridge, tv’s, etc) I began to plan for a guys poker night. I was very excited as renovations, packing, unpacking all made it nearly impossible to plan a poker night, which I had been having at our old house. So when I sent out the email I was rather excited…however, I had one guy respond…everyone else was busy…off to camp. I figured to myself that it was bad timing and I would wait till after summer. Then at the end of August I sent out another email…now I had been working on the house and garage even more and I was ready to hangout in there even more…what happened…everyone busy again…so I cancelled it for the second time.
So we are now catch up to today…currently I am planning a poker night for this Saturday, which I changed from last week, so this Saturday will mark the fourth time I have try to invite people to my new garage, house to hang out. Right now I have three people…wow, that’s triple the previous attempts, but still short of a good group of people. The emails I am getting back are…I’m busy…I have a hockey draft(hockey, people still follow that…geeezzzz), I have to wash my hair, my wife won’t let me…(I forgot to mention that since we can play poker and pool in the garage, that spouses are welcome to come hangout with my wife and the other wives), I don’t know how to play poker (i’ll be more than happy to teach you, I’ll even lend you many hours of poker on tv if you want to watch and learn at your leisure).
If you haven’t figured it out….I am frustrated with people and there busy schedules. Come on, I have a busy schedule, a family, a job, make time for me, the little guy. How far in advance do I have to book these things anyways, who do I have to call to make it happen? Please give me the name of your secretary and I will call to book an appointment if necessary. I have better luck booking Gymblast® for 70-80 schools then I do booking a poker night for 6-10 people.

Sorry you all had to be here for that…tomorrow…I will hopefully have calmed myself….
Maybe I should just return to that place of solitude at Ranger Lake. Didn’t have any problems booking anything there.

Holidays

Well, I just thought I would inform the 4 people who read this that I will be leaving on Holidays tomorrow to BC. With the drop-in centre in my garage I haven’t been able to take much holidays over the summer. We are very excited to be going to Abbotsford to visit my family, and especially to be able to see Libby play with her cousin, Taylor. Should be good times. We hope to get some good R&R before we kick off into the busy fall season. Please pray for us as we are traveling very early in the morning and Libby is going to be stuffed up from a cold for her first plane ride. Be back soon.

We aren’t a business…

It seems in our churches and communities that we like to have everything manageable. This is mentioned in a post by nakedpastor called If It’s Not Measurable It’s Not Manageable – “We want our communities to be manageable. The only way they can be manageable is if every bit is known and measured. This is why it is so tempting to categorize people, to slot people in their “gifting”
I like how he talks about how when we have a measuring line that we can then use that to determine when someone measures up and where they are on the value line. This is the thinking in the business world but shouldn’t be the thinking in churches and communities…so why do I see it so prevalent? It reminds me of my own job….just recently we went through a “Strengths Finder” test to determine the strengths of the office and where our gifts are to be utilized. While I did see some of the value in this exercise (such as see the overall strengths and weakness of our team), I can help but think of this in terms of business. It then reminds me of the many times I have heard the statement, “We need to do thinks more like a business,” or “This isn’t how a business who do it.” And I am not faultless either, I know I have made similar statements myself. The questions we need to be asking our…if we are a looked at ourselves as a community, and a family, how would we do things differently. How much more would we be encouraging each other, and not using the tape measure to determine value. How much more would we all be listen to the hearts of people around us. Just some thoughts…

Sin to Succeed

David Hayward over at nakedpastor had some great thoughts on how we in society and as a church can often use the motto, “The ends justify the means” to succeed. Here is an excerpt.

“Which got me thinking about another great human achievement, the Pyramids of Egypt, which, although arguable, were built from slave labour. Which got me thinking about so many other things that we enjoy today that have been produced directly from imposed cruelty and human suffering. Which got me thinking about so much of the church today.”
Read the rest here

Being in ministry I think sometimes this can also be shown in the lives of pastors and those of us in fulltime ministry. We are “required” to work long hours and be “on call” 24hrs a day. The damages of this aren’t always as noticeable, but it can have a huge effect on the family.

Relevance, Faith & Art

We have become irrelevant.



Many contemporary Christians tend to make one of three errors when dealing with art: One, we declare anything that doesn’t explicitly proselytize, anything that depicts brokenness without redemption to be depraved or unworthy of Christian notice. Or two, we decide that the secular world really does have better art, so we copy it, boldly and without apology or thought into our own creativity. Or three, we try so hard to be relevant that we adopt the attitude and worldview of the culture that surrounds us—instead of being the proverbial salt and light, we end up as dust with nothing to offer in the way of hope, because there is only a perfunctory difference between those of us who claim to follow Christ and those who don’t.



The first position emerges from a utilitarian view of art: if the lyrics don’t say “God” or “Jesus” somewhere in the song, the writer can’t really be following Christ. If the film doesn’t portray the apocalypse or a Bible story, producing it is a waste of money. And heaven forbid we depict real suffering or anything that’s not rated PG. In this view, the quality of the art doesn’t matter. What matters is being family-friendly and getting people “saved”—never mind that this tactic turns art into propaganda and produces work of dubious effectiveness in terms of reaching outside the Christian subculture.





Don’t misunderstand—there is a place for explicitly Christian art and age-appropriate material, and many of the masterpieces do focus on biblical themes. But to assume that all art must conform to this model is frustrating to artists who have an allegiance to Christ yet want to produce work that speaks to the entirety of the human experience. And it deadens the critical thinking capacity of people in the Church, deadens their ability to see and experience part of the nature of God. It also leaves many hurting, unable to ask for help or even admit their failings—what they see in the Church is happy music and people with seemingly perfect lives. Once a new creation in Christ, suffering and pain disappear, right? Wrong. Let’s be honest and admit it.



The second position acknowledges the deficiencies of the first. Tired of seeing the Church so out of touch with society, it attempts to bring society into the church. “Do you like Radiohead? How about OutKast? We do too! See, we’re cool, we’re relevant.” In an attempt to be “hip,” designers borrow the logos of existing brands, replacing company names with Christian phrases and emblazon the results on T-shirts, PowerPoint presentations and church bulletins. Bored with the current palette of praise songs (admittedly these are often another exercise in uncreative musicianship), the worship team brings U2 into the sanctuary. (Even if they are Christians, the point is that this maneuver is still borrowing a band from secular culture and dressing it up in church trappings, similar to what much praise music does.) This approach reeks of laziness and a disregard for creativity, one of the aspects in which humanity is imbued with the nature of God.



Tolkien and Lewis speak of man as sub-creator—the ultimate Creator is God, but man creates in a smaller way, using existing creation to make something new. But instead of investing the time and energy to come up with original material or original thought, or even using the rich material from ages past, Christians here become poor imitators, offering no real commentary on the human experience and why Christ might be relevant to it.



The last position is born out of frustration with the first (and sometimes the second). Tired of being marginalized in the Church and afraid they won’t be accepted in either a secular or religious world, artists disassociate themselves from the label and praxis of Christianity because their work is unacceptable by church standards—and in the mainstream, “Christian art” translates into “bad art.” Few empathize with this position on the fringe of two worlds, so they drift. Cynical from their past experiences with hierarchy and legalism, followers of Christ become reluctant to define their beliefs at all, leaving only spirituality with a vaguely Christian twist. In an effort to sound intelligent in a world that mocks supernatural belief, Christians downplay doctrine and theology.



While there are many things to be learned from tradition and the ways of the high church, the Celts and whatever group happens to be in vogue, these beautiful, artistic expressions of faith should point toward something higher than themselves, should point to God Himself as a specific, personal entity rather than an enigmatic deity or ambiguous spirituality. Without Jesus on the cross, His death and resurrection, God entering history in a specific, historical period, Christianity simply doesn’t exist. Without Jesus, we’re left with a religion that may feel good, but is powerless to save, to transform, to make new.



What we need is art made with excellence—art that reflects the joy, suffering, pain, brokenness, hope in the world around us, even art grounded in a Christian worldview—and a Church that supports it. This art may come from Christians, but we should recognize that it may also come from people who do not know Christ. In its essence, art is the expression of human emotion; true art reminds us that this temporal existence is not the end, that there is something greater, something this world cannot satisfy. It cannot help but call us to God if we only follow its calling. In this way, art is a connection, a connection deeper than mere brushstrokes on a canvas or images on film.



Thomas Hallstrom writes, “Jesus told stories. Some were good and some were dark. Some ended with redemption and some ended with confusing questions. But He wasn’t afraid to tell stories that might turn people away. Many times people walked away after hearing the story, never to return (the rich young ruler who was told to sell all he owned). Other times, the story led the listener to an experience with the living God.” Art does not need to be didactic to be effective. In fact, as soon as it becomes didactic it often loses its effectiveness. It fails to communicate. The purpose of art is not necessarily to provide the answers—it’s much more powerful to ask the questions and allow an audience to seek the answers themselves. Jesus promised that those who seek will find, and we should trust him. He meant it when he said it.



If our art isn’t relevant to the entirety of our experience, the fullness of our lives—good, bad, scared, profane—then it cannot be relevant to the people around us. It will not be relevant to our culture. We need this art, need it desperately. In expressing our creativity, this piece of us that is also a piece of the character of God, we share in His nature. And that can only draw us closer to the One in whom our hope remains.



-Originally posted by Dawn Xiana Moon at Relevant Magazine